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. posted @ Sunday, November 15, 2009

Shit. I fucking hate my uncle.

It's not the first time he passed such criticism. What's his problem? Who is he to judge me? He is not even marrying me, so how does it come to his concern? I am not marrying his son or whatsnot. Every aspect of me has absolutely nothing to do with him. If my aunt is not around, I wouldnt give a damn and shoot him down all the way.

What's worse is everyone is simply keeping quiet. And he, having lived in this world and working in the society for so many years, cant sense that it's time to shut his big mouth up. Is that call negative EQ or what?

I will make sure I roll my eyes everytime I see him. The sight of him just irks me. If stupidity is a crime, I would have charge him to court.

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You know.. when people offer u critics, there are 3 rationales:

1) they are purely concerned. This would be your immediate family members, especially your mummy and daddy cos they cant bear to see their child go on the wrong path.

2) they are being affected by you. Perhaps you have body odour and it affects them alot, so they decided to tell u.

3) they just wanna mock at you. Such people should be sentenced to jail. And what a coincidence! This is the category my uncle belongs to.

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And.. when people ask you questions about you, there are 4 rationales:

1) they are purely concerned and they are the ones you should share your truthful thoughts with.

2) they just wanna know. They wanna know everything about you. These are the Kpo people whom you are afraid to let them know much cos the next day, you realise that somehow other people also know about it. And these people have freaking good memory.

3) they just ask for the sake of asking, out of courtesy. Such people are harmless but they can be quite irritating cos they will forget about it the next time round and ask you again.

4) they wanna find ways to mock at you. U know some people just have the mocking tone when they ask you "how are you?", "still working in the same company ah?" Such people should be sentenced to jail too.

I am sorry but I just detest them. You give me shit, I will reply you with shit too so that you wouldnt bother me anymore. It's to prevent time waste in future in case I need to deal with you again.

I love kitty.

stupid posted @ Saturday, November 14, 2009

Perhaps it's the time of the month.. I just cant help finding fault or rather being irritated by people around me. Their behaviour, the things they say are so cock that either I keep quiet, roll my eyes or.. if I cant keep mum, I snap back.

When such low EQ comment comes out from your mouth, it makes me wonder what have u been doing to your life for the past yearssss..

I love kitty.

before work starts.. posted @ Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Went Pulau Ubin with my uni friends. It's my first time cycling there! Surprisingly dangerous I feel. The steep down slopes.. The narrow mud track surrounded by tall trees and bushes... The dark roads without any street lamps. And it's very tedious with all the steep up slopes. What's worse when it rained near evening time. We took shelter for a while and decided to move on in the rain before the sky turned dark with no street lamps at all.

Met up with my JC friends. We had one almost every year but the turnout was always bad. But this time round, 10 of us turned up! And there were some whom I didnt met up with since A levels ended. Now that I graduated. That's like 3-4 years! Good timing I suppose, with all those studying overseas back in SG for holiday.

Went to Serangoon Broadway to take family pics again. It's freaking EX!! I cant believe so many people actually took the pics there. Luckily I took some at Suntec already. Though they said the quality differs with the price, to me, it's all the same. I cant tell the difference. And as long as it looks nice and presentable on the wall or on the desk, it's alright! Who will examine those pics with microscope..

Gonna start work tomorrow! I am excited! :D

I love kitty.

mummy's bday posted @ Thursday, September 17, 2009

It's my mummy's bday! I totally forgot till a few days ago. Luckily I bought Clinique set from the JB trip, can just treat it as bday present. And I thought of bringing her for a massage spa during the day.

On the way to Changi Airport T3...

After the scrub, massage and steam bath.. The lady is power manz. Blue-black appeared on my both shoulders the very night..

On the way back home..

My daddy came to fetch us to ECP for seafood dinner..

Asked my daddy to take pics for me.. He always give no warning before snapping..

Today is their 31st wedding anniversary! :)

I hope we dont look alike.

I wanna look like my daddy more! Except for his turkey-like neck..

Look at the bday auntie.. omg.

My mummy and I always say daddy's neck is like those of the turkey's. Thin, saggy, flabby.. See, I can just pull the top layer skin and it wont fall back after I release.

My daddy didnt even realised I pulled his neck and took a pic of it. But my mummy was trying to tell on me.. She was trying to tell my daddy that I pulled his neck and took a pic of it.. So mean of her.. Look at my daddy.. He's still laughing away.. Dumb Dumb one..

I love kitty.

lala! posted @ Monday, September 14, 2009

Tired. The tiredness I experienced cant be recovered just by sleeping 48 hours one shot. Recalling back, I guess its the one-after-another events that makes my life goes on and on without a pause for me to rest. Hullabaloo followed by my step-grandma's funeral...

I am really glad to have the support of my friends for Hullabaloo! My pri sch friends, my sec sch friends, my uni friends, thanks for coming down to take part! :) I know many of them just aint the sporty kind and many stay as far as bishan, bt batok; they took part not because of the prizes but just to show support for me. I feel that their support and attendance are the greatest consolation I get from organizing this event.

Met up with my internship ex colleagues. I am glad that the few of us still keep in touch with each other and occasional meet-ups to update each other with our lives always put a pause to my life. Listening to stories of other people while having dinner never fail to produce the effect of pulling me out of the "me-world". It makes me realise that other people are going through rough patches as well, other people are going through much worse feelings, or other people are adopting such positive attitude which I should too.

The long awaiting JB trip! I was so looking forward to it. It was quite a rush one for me cos after the tiring funeral, I had to give make-up tuition lessons for my tutees and meet up with my ex intern colleagues, didnt have much time to prepare for the JB trip. I know there's nothing much to prepare physically. But I like to do mental preparation. Thinking of what to bring, what to do, what time to set off from home etc.

In the end, on that day, I forgot to bring along Lynette's present, gotta rush back home to take it. My mummy suddenly called me to remind me that my passport is going to expire in Nov. By right the expiry date should not be less than 6 months later. I already prepared myself for the worst which is to go back to SG alone. I was late. I forgot to withdraw money to change into RM.

By the time we reached SG, it was past midnight and lynette's bf drove us all home.

Fengzhi invited us to her house before she leaves for Aus coming Fri again. It was a fun and laughter-filled night! Thought it's always the few of us attending such gathering, I feel it's enough. As long as the few of us continue to support such gathering, perhaps in future more pri sch friends will turn up. :)

We played drinking game intro by Fengzhi, Indian Poker and some mining game. It's the first time drinking with pri sch friends and it's good that almost all of us are still staying in Simei.

This is Fengzhi's LuLu, not my Dudu. Our christmas present 2008. :)

I love kitty.